I officially asked my all of my bridemaids today and they all said yes! I'm so happy. My maid of honor and two of my bridesmaids are my three best friends from college. My other two bridemaids are my two sisters. In total, my bridal party has 5 people. My fiance plans to match that and also have 5 people.
So, you might be wondering how did I ask them? Well, since I wouldn't be able to see any of them in person, I had to think of a way to ask them long-distance. I deciding that sending something wasn't a personal as I'd like it to be. If I'm giving them a gift, I'd rather give it to them in person. Since I'm seeing them in September, I plan to give them a gift then. However, for now I came up with something to do.
I used kizoa.com to create a slideshow to send to my friends. I made a slideshow of college days together and added in a poem about memories I had with them. Each slide was a picture of us and a line of the poem. The last line of the poem said, "And that's why I'd love for you to be party of by big day and in a very big way." Then the final slide said, "Will you be my bridesmaid?" The site was very easy to use and allowed me to send out the slideshow to my friends via e-mail.
All of the girls loved it! It brought back such good memories of all of us and left a couple of them crying. (I know I wanted to when I was making it.) After seeing the slideshow each of them called me up and said yes!
Now I just need to get my fiance to ask his best man and groomsmen. Any suggestions?
Feel free to share how you asked your bridemaids and/or how he asked his groomsmen.